Here we go…

My name is Patti and I’m almost three years into my journey as a widow. I remember the moment I first realized that I was a (gasp) widow. It was the day after my husband passed and I was changing the sheets on my son’s bed because family was flying in to stay with us. I stopped and actually said aloud, “I am a widow.” How could that possibly be? A widow is an elderly white haired lady who wears black all of the time. I was 51 years old!

My husband Kevin passed away on August 25, 2019. Three days before our 26th wedding anniversary. He was 52 years old. We just celebrated his birthday last Friday.

The month of August is a tough one. I think maybe that’s why I have finally decided to start this blog. I need somewhere to record my crazy thoughts so that maybe they’ll make some sense to someone.

Hopefully you will come along on this journey with me. I promise it will not be boring. There may be some tears, but there will definitely be a lot of laughs.

6 responses to “Here we go…”

  1. I look forward and am excited to join you on this journey!
    Love you Patti!

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    1. Thank you. Love you too friend!

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    Patti McDowell Phoenix

    How exciting. The best way to deal is to put your feelings down. I keep a journal, but this is better because people can relate to what you are going through and share their journies with you too. It helps a lot to know we are not alone. Looking forward to your entries.

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    1. I hope I can touch someone with my words.

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  3. Writing is such good therapy. I am looking forward to reading your insights.

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    1. I’m definitely looking forward to getting into the flow of writing.

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